woman's soul

Last night i was doing spa with bu, my housemate.mmg seronok abis!.we are scrabbing using our traditional secret,bunga tanjung and bunga rambai.rasa hilang sumea lenguh-lenguh badan ni.aishhh pompuan mmg kene jagalah kan body ni.thats what my grandmamma say..itu belum bersalin lagi,setiap kali bersalin tu berapa byk urat putus and rosak.
wah,besarnya pengorbanan wanita and of course its was referred to our mother.

i just remember my talk with nabila;s mother when she stay in our home in egypt last winter.

nabila's mother: "bila u all dah besar nanti u all terfikir2 balik mcm umi yg sebenarnya peranan terbesar kita ni as wanita adalah melahirkan baby,kerja lain2 tu sampingan je.without woman,siapalah nak sambung nasab keturunan lelaki"

me:yeke umi!? i'm a bit shocked because selama ni mmg langsung xterpk like that.

me:patutlah dulu2 anak dara umur 13,14 tahun da terus kahwin kan umi.lani je pompuan dapat kedepan menuntut ilmu tinggi2,capai cita2,tapi bila dah berfamly..tugasnya tetap sama as isteri and ibu kan umi.

nabila's mother: "that's it.mmg betol.wanita lah yang melahirkan harta akhirat buat lelaki dan dirinya sendiri.And of course kamu as perempuan2 ini harus sedar diri ni bukan dicipta dgn sia2 bahkan tersangatlah besar peranannya".

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forget about mother-daughter conversation.

after taking bath,we do have a conversation with firdaus who just came back from her community class. interested in her story when she was doing attachment in O&G(Obsteric and Gynecology) department in HKB during summer break last august making me totally forget about my planned to sleep early at that night.Cases by cases about normal delivery and caeserian i heard from firdaus.in spite of that, i also learn from her how to push out the baby in a right way.(macam lah nis ni nak beranak dah.hahahaha).scary!.(^_^)v

One of the most interesting cases that i heard from firdaus is about a woman who was delievering her baby but having a complication because she have hypertension.at that time the mother may get a convulsion.and doctors says that nyawa baby and mother is about fifty fifty(50 50).at that time the doctor said that the husband have to choose whether to save his wife's life or his baby.but at that time,the doctor can't decide yet because the husband is not beside his wife instead of another person who maybe the woman's worih(waris pronoun in loghat kelantan).

hearing this story makes a cold shiver ran down my spine,my heart pumping too fast lud dup lup dup! and my palm was getting trembling like an aspen leaf.thinking about the husband feeling making my eyes flood with tears..

besarnya ujian her husband ketika itu!
Semoga Allah memberikannya kekuatan..

this plot of story was not finished by firdaus because she said she have to go back home from the hospital at that time.oh!firdaus!u make me so berdebar ok!but firdaus say that dont worry because if the doctor have to make decision of course the team work will safe the mothers's life because nyawa emak sudah ada dlm tangan but the baby life we dont know and can't predict it well.

how difficult to be a doctor actually.=(
we have to working and safe people life.

but in everything doctors do,
Allah yang menentukan segalanya..
kita hanya dapat mencari penawar,
tetapi yang menyembuhkan dan menyelamatkan hanyalah Allah S.W.T..

cerita yg sungguh memberikan seribu pengajaran..=)))

how our mother bertarung nyawa to give a birth.hukhuk..

btw,thanks firdaus for a nice story..=))